R: Mommy, when are you going back to the other house? Me: Well, whenever you need to be dropped off or picked up, I go there. R: No, I mean, to live? Me: I'm not going to. J: Not ever? Me: No. ...Followed by about 30 seconds of silence and then random, mostly cheerful conversations about math and science. Updated Showing me her art projects not an hour later: J: And this is where you can put your ring! Me: ...I don't have a ring. J: *Examines my hands* Where is it? Me: Remember, I put it in the quilt? R: And it got lost? (They didn't know about that) Me: Yes, someone cut the quilt and took it. R: Why? Me: I guess they thought they needed a ring more than I needed my art. But then Papi gave me his ring, which was very nice of him. J: Can I see it?